Welcome to Lola
Lola is confidential.
Lola is release.
Lola is acceptance.
Lola is compassion.
Lola is safety.
Stacey Kyllo PCD, RCT., RTC-c.
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My North Star in my life is to build circles of belonging where people are seen, heard, and nurtured. My mandate is to stand against the loneliness that tries to divide us, weaving mentorship and fierce connection until isolation has no place to hide.
I was raised off-grid and homeschooled, surrounded by the rhythms of the natural world. Growing up in nature taught me self-reliance, wonder, and a relentless drive for growth. That early life planted in me a belief that true transformation happens when we feel both rooted and free.
My path has carried me through early childhood development, psychology, counselling, and coaching, and through the raw realities of life itself. I’ve navigated divorce, parented a spirited and oppositional ADHD child, supported a courageous transgender child, explored alternative relationship dynamics, and moved through my own seasons of depression, anxiety, and profound life transition.
After many years spent navigating the online dating world and several ‘interesting’ experiences/relationships, I discovered the joy of meeting my later-in-life love, proof that new chapters can bloom when you least expect them.
These lived experiences shape the heart of my work far more than any credential ever could and have fueled my passion for attachment theory, understanding how the bonds we form shape the way we love, heal, and connect. It has also fueled my deep desire to work with women navigating their life journey through dating, love and intimacy as well as my passion for working with couples as they navigate their lives and relationships.
Today I welcome people from every walk of life into my sanctuary sessions, as well as my extensive group work sessions. I am especially devoted to creating affirming space for LGBTQ2S individuals and for people who identify as polyamorous/ethically non-monogamous, honoring each person’s identity, values, and relationship choices. I also work with monogamous couples and assist in conscious uncoupling.
Whether you come to process loss, to rediscover your own strength, or simply to pause and breathe, I meet you with deep listening, and an intuitive presence that lets your own wisdom rise.
When I’m not holding space for others, you’ll find me transforming ordinary corners of my home and workspaces into cozy restful places, tending my ever-growing collection (obsession) of houseplants, or passionately creating a new workbook in my office or on the patio with a tall glass of iced coffee, always gathering new ideas and learning new things.
Services
The Sanctuary Session
When life feels loud, confusing, or heavy, Sanctuary Sessions give you a protected hour to pause, breathe, and find your footing again.
Together, we slow everything down.
We sift through the noise.
We listen for what matters.
And we let your clarity rise at its own pace.
This isn’t clinical, beige-cardigan therapy.
And it isn’t advice-giving or band aid fixing.
It’s a steady, compassionate conversation held with deep listening, curiosity, and genuine presence.
Bring your questions.
Bring your tangled thoughts.
Bring the part of you that just needs a moment of peace.
In a Sanctuary Session, your vulnerability is met with safety, your story is met with care, and your next steps begin to come into focus, gently, naturally, without pressure.
*Available In Person in NW Calgary or Online
$60 1 Hour Session
$90 1.5 Hour Session
The Daily Sanctuary
15 Minutes
A brief, grounding moment carved out just for you.
A quiet pause in a world that pulls your attention in a hundred directions.
It’s a small space to gather yourself.
To breathe.
To hear your own thoughts again.
To choose what really matters before the day chooses for you.
This isn’t about being perfect.
It isn’t about productivity, hustle, or self-help routines.
It’s about slowing down just long enough to feel, recalibrate, and begin your day from a place that’s steady instead of scattered.
You get presence.
You get clarity.
You get a gentle reset that helps you show up to your life with purpose, not autopilot.
Alignment doesn’t happen in big dramatic moments, it happens in these small, intentional pauses.
*Offered Online Only
**Offered once a week or up to six days per week - Monday to Saturday
$20 per session
The Silent Sanctuary
60 Minutes
When speaking out loud feels like too much, The Silent Sanctuary offers a live, real-time conversation entirely through text or messaging.
This is your hour to pour out what’s on your mind at a pace that feels natural. Type, pause, breathe, and reflect between messages, no camera, no pressure, just a protected space where you can be heard without having to find your outside voice.
Whether you’re processing something heavy, feeling socially drained, or simply need support without face-to-face energy, this is a quiet haven for clarity and connection, one message at a time.
$60 1 Hour Session
Why Should You Choose Lola?
At Lola, healing isn’t a formula and it certainly isn’t one-size-fits-all.
It is personal. Raw. Transformative.
This is more than counselling. It’s a village of sacred spaces, from the intimate hush of a Sanctuary Session, to the powerful energy found in our group spaces.
Each connection is designed to meet you exactly where you are and invite your own wisdom to rise.
Here, growth isn’t forced. It unfolds.
Here, vulnerability is met with safety and care.
Here, your story is welcomed and your next chapter begins.
Lola is not just another therapy service; it’s a living sanctuary, a place to pause, breathe, and reclaim the power and peace that already belong to you.
Step into the room.
Your village is waiting.
